Do you pray about it more than you talk about it? Do you really?
This is something I am working on. I am not on of those ppl who likes to gossip. Do I hear a lot of stuff because I seem to be the secret keeper for many friends? Yes, I do. I don't share it with the world though. I know I know this seems odd since I blog about my life but its true. Sometimes this can be tough because you just want to be a good ear to someone and help them with their problems. Sometimes I vent too. I don't want anything done necessarily I just want to talk about whatever the issue maybe and dialog....pray...and then move on.
I think having a few friends that you can feel free to talk to at anytime is a good thing. The kind of friends who will set you straight. The kind of friends who help you to figure out things. The kind of friends who listen, laugh or even tell you that your being silly. I am lucky because I have 3 friends that I know no matter what I tell them. No matter what is going on in my life.....the good, the bad whatever.....they are there for me. They care with their hearts and its very sincere.
I use my friends kind of like how I use my husband....as a "am I doing this right?" sounding board:) With my mother passing away years ago I don't have that person that I can go to and ask....."what do you think about this or that?" or "How can I handle this situation better?" or even "Do you think I am doing this right?"
My husband is my first and foremost person that I go to. He is my BFF and well he is my other half who is VERY supportive to me. Lets agree though that as a woman sometimes you need your girlfriends view too:)
I guess this blog really is about friendship. Its knowing I can be me. Its about knowing that no matter what my friends tell me that its in my heart and not on the tip of my lips to tell someone else. I want to be there for my friends. To listen, to maybe give my opinion or some advice. The good thing about that is.....I don't get upset if they don't take it. Because that's exact what it is....just advice.
In the end though....as much as I talk to my friends or they talk to me....I pray about it.
God is the one that is going to help you the most. I want to be one of those ppl who pray about it and ask for Gods answers more than I talk about it. Whatever it maybe.
It really is a good rule!
I just want to thank you guys....you know who you are. For loving me and my family. For always supporting us 100percent and for praying for us on a daily basis. Our life is a good life but with you in it....its a great life.
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Question of the day: Do you pray more than you talk about a situation?
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